2018年1月31日星期三

本質善良

今晚都係我教阿女做功課,佢根本有好多功課,因爲一般她不是特別快那群,做唔曬不出奇,尤其是今日去咗ECA跳舞。我已經覺得佢好叻,用最有精神嘅時間做咗中文先,然後去食完飯之後做英文同數學。但係仍然都做到好夜,我唯有一路幫她做,更加幫她寫。呢件事係唔啱嘅,不過冇辦法,佢又爭好多冇得交,又欠交。佢選擇過欠交,佢覺得係一個方法的話,我替佢一齊做也都係一個方法。兩個方法都係唔好。不過暫時冇辦法,唯有由得佢先。我同佢一起做完功課之後,佢去瞓教,佢不停表示浪費咗我時間,即是爸爸工作嘅時間,我話不要這麼說,你已經很努力,我才會幇忙。我唔肯定處理手法係咪有智慧同埋有冇問題不過暫時唯有消化咗先,我指消化左功課先。

2018年1月29日星期一

難得用中文

我哋偶然嘅一家三口去咗陳先生同V小姐屋企打邊爐。打完邊爐之後當然有玩遊戲嘅時間。我哋帶咗鄰居借畀我哋嘅遊戲去玩,阿囡竟然用中文去解釋遊戲規則,而且非常之努力。遊戲本身有一些道具,亦有一啲紙卡,如果要由頭將個遊戲講解,會分成三部分,那會包含圖畫內容,道具功能説明以及如何贏得遊戲。她全個過程都是用中文去告訴V,而且都是不斷尋找唔同嘅字眼啊,嘗試串聯成一句句有意思嘅句子。她的努力,她的勇敢,我真係覺得好欣慰。無論她現在或者將來嘅中文程度會係點樣,學嘅方法係本地人抑或係外國人方法,我覺得已經唔重要。最重要佢學得有自信,又開心,唔係一個懲罰。

2018年1月25日星期四

陪伴

阿囡係人定要很多人一起陪她成長,但不單是守護在旁那種,而且真的是「堅陪」。這種實地真人的「陪」,真的是另一體驗。這不是想説我是有責任的爸爸,而是「陪」的過程真是有體會。陪食飯,陪公園玩,陪做功,陪睇電視,陪洗澡,陪訓覺,陪執書包等等。我也有自己的事要做,但陪得這麽貼近,她也不多不少明白了爸爸和家人,這是沒設定下的得著,令她成長。

2018年1月24日星期三

Difficult Tuesday

She had ECA today and she has Chinese homework as well. She just fell asleep immediately when I started a reading story, especially it is a Chinese one. The most important thing is about health and I really should force her to stop doing homework and go to bed. The flu in HK recently is so strong that I am afraid of her immune system will be weakened because of inadequate sleep. However, she really insists to finish it even she almost fell asleep on the writing desk. My poor little girl and I wish she can be healthier. 

2018年1月21日星期日

跟媽媽一起

雖然有磨擦,但也有互動,這是唯有澄媽才能做的美勞創作。

還沒有成功

之前借左四本中文書,圖書館裏面的書都很多選擇,很多都是童話,又有插圖又有中文普通話拼音。我幾經辛苦在晚上,跟她讀完其中三本,她讀完都覺得很有趣。但是今天星期日要還書了,她又不肯再去借,要我自己去還,又要我自選借新的回來給她讀。看來還有很漫長的路,要堅持啊!

2018年1月17日星期三

Google Search

She finds a lot photos of herself recently from Google and she shows me those findings tonight. She thought she is ¨famous¨. She is very happy to know that I put ¨She is the one¨ on her blog when I explain to her where and why there are so many photos of her.


Needless to say, she likes to find out articles with photos rather than words. It is simply because she cannot read all the Chinese I wrote. She asked me what am I going to write today or tonight. Now, you know what I am writing. Good night my dear and I am still writing your story.

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